My Ex Is Breaking Our Custody Order, What Should I Do?
At Ruppert Law Firm LLC, we know that having serious disagreements with an ex-spouse about co-parenting can be exhausting. It may feel like you haven’t even gotten divorced at all. Custody orders can take a lot of time and energy to put together, but that doesn’t mean that your co-parent will respect them. If you are facing an issue like this, we have offices in Greensburg and Mount Lebanon, and we’re ready to help.
The Custody Order Works, But They Won’t Respect It
If your ex isn’t obeying the custody order in any way – limiting your custody, not showing up for their custody time, moving without telling you – you can submit a motion for contempt. The court will review the circumstances, and if they decide in your favor, your ex can be fined or sanctioned by the judge for failing to respect the court’s decision. Some examples of sanctions are:
- Ordering them to make up any missed custody time with your child
- Ordering them to take parenting classes
- Financial compensation for the money your attorney billed you
- Jail time and/or giving you primary custody
If you’re tired of your ex giving a million different excuses, this motion can be invaluable. At Ruppert Law Firm LLC we make it our mission to protect our clients and provide personable and hardworking representation.
The Custody Order Needs To Change
While a lot of work can go into making a custody order, the terms aren’t set in stone after it is approved by the court. Lifestyles and livelihoods change, and that can make a custody order feel out of date. Pennsylvania parents can submit a modification request if that is the case. Here are five common reasons why a custody order can be revisited:
- Improved financial stability
- Better living conditions
- More flexible job hours
- Concerns over your ex’s ability to care for your child due to mental health or other issues
- Changes in your child’s needs related to their age or otherwise
The court will then reconsider your custody order and potentially change it to be more in your favor, so long as they feel it is in the best interests of your child. At Ruppert Law Firm LLC, we know that an older custody order can create friction with your current lifestyle, and we work diligently to argue for a more seamless custody order update.
If you are having issues with your standing custody, please feel free to reach out. At Ruppert Law Firm LLC we offer a free consultation, which you can schedule through our contact form or by calling us at 412-730-2187. We want to hear from you so that we can start working on a solution to the challenges you are facing.